Berlin.

June 2024

Thoughts. 

I’ve heard Berlin described as gritty, cool, and international. There’s a tension underlying the starkness and beauty of the architecture, the people, the graffiti, and what’s left of the wall. It was hard not to feel like everything had meaning, which made it feel important to see and understand.

Spending time there with friends — from Berlin as well as the Bay Area — also added a level of warmth and familiarity that deepened our experience beyond being tourists at Checkpoint Charlie.  It didn’t hurt we were also there for the European Futbol Championships, and Germany beat Denmark while we were there. Every cafe had a TV on the sidewalk with locals pouring onto the streets to watch, adding such great energy to the city. Berlin, we will be back. Just next time don’t lose our luggage.
 

Stay. 

Eat.

  • Cafe am Neuen See. My favorite place in Berlin. It has all of the things – nature, beer, great food and music. It’s situated in Tiergarten Park where I plan to spend more time next time. 
  • Cafe Restaurant Jolesch. Fantastic schnitzel and Kaiserschmarrn – like a cross between a Dutch Baby pancake and bread pudding. In Kreuzberg neighborhood which I really liked. 
  • Van Loon Restaurant Boat. Great place for fish and chips on the canal. We walked the canal at night after dinner, what a cool vibe. Next time I’ll bring beers to the Admiralbrucke Bridge and get lost in the crowd. 

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  • Berlin Third Reich & Cold War Walking Tour. This tour was essential to our Berlin experience because of the sites, but moreover because of the knowledge and passion of our guide Georgia. When we travel, I understand the basic history of most places, and know I can refresh myself by reading or listening to an audio guide. But, this tour offered a poignant and important reminder of the sobering and highly relevant history that played out on the very streets we walked on. I can’t recommend this enough. 
  • East Side Gallery. A 1km stretch of the Berlin Wall painted by street artists after German reunification. Moving, beautiful and intensive reminder of the division that appeared in the city practically overnight. 
  • Solarwaterworld Hafen. Took a 2.5 hour solar boat tour on the River Spree with friends. It was a great way to see the city from a different angle.

Ibiza.

June 2024

Thoughts 

Ibiza. Just say yes. Especially if it’s someone’s birthday and someone else is planning the most fantastic holiday of all time. My friend of 25 years turned 50 – how have I known anyone for half their life? – and her husband organized a friends’ trip of a lifetime. He thought of every detail and I thought of my next cocktail. To that end, all credit for every recommendation here is to him. But it was enough to make me fall in love with Ibiza even though I was always a little afraid of my idea of it. There is something for everyone here, not just Mike Posner.  

Stay 

  • Rental. We stayed in the hills surrounded by olive trees and bouganvilla. The place was otherworldly. All credit to our host for the spoiling of us. But in a more reality-based next time, having seen the main Ibiza town, I think staying slightly outside the fray would be our move.  

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  • Chiringuito Cala Xuclar. Best lunch I have had in Spain since moving here 9 months ago. The freshest fish, the most delicious starters & the coldest rose, all with sandy feet and swimsuits. 
  • PaloSanto Ibiza. Second favorite meal in Ibiza. Spanish riff on Mexican with all the tequila cocktails to enforce the theme. I get that octopus is polarizing but I have never had  
  • Es Moli de Sal / Formentera. We pulled up on a boat and ate lunch. That could essentially end the description, that’s how lovely it was. Get the lobster salad, I didn’t and I still regret it.  
  • Experimental Beach. Am I in the Hamptons or Ibiza? I don’t care, the people-watching and sunset-seeing are marvelous. Good food too. 
  • Sunset Ashram. ā€œBest sunset in Ibizaā€? Not sure but cool bar to grab a drink to watch the people watching the disappearing sun (and clapping).

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  • Beach, boats, pool. Pretty much the formula of the week. There are so many beaches and coves and places to explore. The main highlight tho was renting a boat to and exploring the beaches of Formentera from the water. Head over there and pull up for lunch at one of the seaside restaurants.  
  • Sunsets. Second to beach, boats, pool, but equally as important and even more stunning. Sunsets in Ibiza are a thing. The last one we saw was accompanied by clapping. 
  • Las Dalias de Ibiza. Aka: Hippy Market. What is this place? It is definitely a place. Think artisan market – meets pop up bars – meets outdoor dance club.You can buy all the Boho fringe you want followed by a bit of EDM.  
  • Hiking. We did only a smidge near our place but the opportunities look infinite. Next time…

Sicily.

April 2024

Thoughts.Ā 

Para mi, Sicily was long-standing bucket list, long before The White Lotus made Taormina an American tourist hot spot. We only had a long weekend so we limited ourselves to one corner of the island. We focused on Cefalu and Palermo – super easy to fly into and get around, even if one lands at 11pm and realizes they forgot to bring their driver’s license while at the car rental kiosk šŸ˜‰Ā 

Our base was Cefalu, with one night in Palermo. Cefalu is a delight – touristy but not overly so, great food, beautiful beaches and rocky cliffs. It’s small and easy to get around. Palermo is gritty, loud and fun as hell. We were marveling that Sunday evening at 10pm seemed livelier than a midday workday.

I would keep the same itinerary with the time we had, but with any more days, we would have traveled around more of the island. I craved time in the mountains and would have loved to see Mt Etna. But there isn’t a better way to soothe oneself than with mountains of arancini. Sicily, we will be back.

Stay. 

  • Cefalu / Casanova Suites. Delightful family-run b&b on the coast with a pretty balcony where they serve a delicious breakfast. We stayed in the family room. Highly recommend, and if you do stay there, let me know first! 

Eat.

  • Cefalu / Rossorubini Enoteca. Great wine bar on the main street with delicious bruschetta. We went twice we liked it so much.  
  • Cefalu / Sfrigola Cefalù. It may be a chain, but this is delicious arancini. Admittedly, there was no bad arancini in our Sicilian daily arancini binge. 
  • Castlebuono / Fiasconaro. Panettone that even the Pope loves?
  • Palermo / Cannoli & Co. You pick the filling. You cannot go wrong.  
  • Palermo / Nni Franco U Vastiddaru. Great sandwiches, long lines to prove it.

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  • Cefalu / Rocco di Cefalu. Hike up the mountain to explore old ruins.
  • Cefalu / Jeep tour. Tusatrophy excursions in Madonie National Park. Visited Castlebuono
  • Palermo / No Mafia Tour. In-depth tour on the history and modern day take on the Mafia. 
  • Palermo / Quattro Canti. The heart of Palermo is marked with four beautiful sculptures at each side of the intersection. Stroll in any direction and you’re inundated with shops, bars, bachelorette parties and every street food you can imagine. I liked Colori del Sol for beautiful textiles. 

Morocco.

March 2024

Thoughts. 

Morocco is complicated, chaotic, wild and wonderful. It is a country at the intersection of religion and culture, so close to neighboring Europe and so far away. I think of our time there as the first real ā€œtravelā€ the kids have done, vs ā€œvacationā€. It sometimes felt hard – noisy, smelly, raw. There were long drives and sometimes not much to see. It was also Ramadan when we were there, but for me, that offered even more context to our visit. But for a few days, we were not just on vacation, we were a part of a place that more closely resembles much of the world. That made it feel worth it. 

I tried to put the trip together myself as I usually do, but this one felt intimidating. I couldn’t figure out the order of places / how to move around / the right sights / proper tour guides. So for this one, I gave in and Martha at Strong Travel helped me. She’s an experienced travel agent with great taste and inherently understands family travel. We’ve worked with her several times over the years and her partners at Experience Morocco helped pull it all together. 

We visited Fez, Rabat, Marrakech, and the Agafay Desert. I regret not going to the Sahara but we couldn’t stomach an 8 hour drive each way. Because of the travel agency management, it’s harder to recommend some of the guided experiences, but there are definitely landmarks not to miss. 

In general, Morocco felt very expensive, much more than I expected. I’m not sure if it’s the way we did it or just the tourist experience there. If I did it again I would definitely skip Rabat, and go a little longer to make the Sahara drive less painful.  And I still think I’d work with a travel agency, but perhaps educate myself a little more about the kinds of activities I wanted to do, or places I wanted to see. Most of my recommendations are in Marrakech, in part because some of the things we did in other cities were not as memorable. If you decide to head to Morocco, let’s talk about it live.

Stay.

  • Caravan by Habitas Agafay. Hipster cool, fabulous scenery, great food. I loved the tent vibe even despite the two-day windstorm. 
  • Dar Rhizlane. We did not stay here, but I dream of this riad. We walked in for dinner and were overwhelmed by its beauty and architecture. 

Eat. 

  • Tajine all day. Moroccan food is amazing. The couscous, harira soup, breads, the braised meats, the salad plates and my favorite – the pastilla – were delicious everywhere. My favorite meal was sitting amongst the street vendors in Jemaa el-Fnaa, the main square in Marrakech, where you can try a taste of everything.
  • Le Jardin Marrakech. A lovely cafe in a breezy courtyard in the heart of the medina for lunch or dinner. We appreciated the variety of food after extensive (and amazing) tajine. 
  • La Terrasse des Epices. Fabulous rooftop restaurant near the edge of the medina. Definitely need reservations but worth the unique French / Moroccan cuisine. 
  • Bacha Coffee. Super touristy spot with rumored amazing coffee. It was inside the archeology museum and had a 2 hour (!) wait. But the interior is beautiful, and you can imagine yourself sitting next to Winston Churchill smoking a cigar. 
  • Bo Zin. I think I recommend it? It’s a total scene and totally outside of what I expected of Morocco. So maybe go for that.

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  • Atlas Mountains. Experienced the mountain landscape in between two major rainstorms. Hiked up (or in Nola’s case, took a mule šŸ˜‰ to a mountain hut to prepare a tajine with a local family. By far, my favorite activity. I can recommend a guide if you want one. 
  • Camels and ATVs. Oh my. We didn’t do the ATV but heck yes we rode some camels. There were hundreds of places to do both on the road through the Agafay Desert. 
  • Les Bains de Marrakech. I knew I wanted to go to a bathhouse for a scrub. When we last went to Istanbul, I missed out and so this was bucket list. It didn’t disappoint for its … thoroughness.  
  • Medina Wander. The medinas are mind blowing. It’s what I always dreamed it would be and so much more infinite. You can buy anything as long as you bargain for it! One place we loved was the apothecary near . But in general, I loved the medina in Fez as much as the one in Marrakech. It’s a cultural experience you can’t miss.

London.

March 2024

Thoughts.

There is so much about London to love, and no shortage of people to tell you where to fall in. It had been years since I’d properly visited, but my girlfriend was there for work, so I went too. It was so much more beautiful – and more green! – then I remembered. All I really did was eat, drink and stroll past all of the parks and charming shops / pubs / cottages with three amazing women I know from totally different stages of life. 

Stay.

Eat 

  • DUCKSOUP. Natural wines, cozy space and good people watching. 
  • Bubala. Middle Eastern vegetarian vibe in Soho. Super creative, delicious food.
  • Blandford Comptoir. Sweet spot in Marylebone, especially if it follows the required pub visit with an old friend. 
  • The River Cafe. Liz, you have made this restaurant iconic to me. What a fabulous place, even if you show up to the wrong River Cafe at first. 
  • Gail’s Bakery. Scones. I really love scones and these were fantastic.

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  • Borough Market. This market is so much fun to walk through and sample all the bites. We walked there just to burn off the morning scones so we could try it all. 
  • Stroll. Sit in Parks. Repeat. It was full on spring when I arrived. Everything was blossoming and I even saw the sun! This was the very best part of my visit. 

Val D’Isere.

February 2024

Thoughts.

I knew nothing of skiing in the Alps. My skiing is adequate at best, and was originally limited to Poconos ice. But after seeing how ski mad David, Milo and Nola are, and then learning how fabulous everything surrounding skiing in Europe, I must say, I’m equally there. 

So, how to explain Val. Authentic, expensive, extensive, gorgeous, delicious. There are crepes. And our friends were there. This made for a great ski holiday. I’d definitely go back.

Stay.

  • Hotel Ormelune. It didn’t set the world on fire, but it was close to the slopes and lots of breakfast.
  • Chateau Izia. Our friends stayed here. If I went back, I’d look into this apartment option.
  • Victoria Lodge. One last hotel option I really liked, but it was booked.

Eat.

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  • Ski ski ski. Get the 6 out of 7 day ski pass. Fall in love with the terrain up the Olympique Gondola
  • Mountain Masters. Gathered a group of kids and created our own group.

Carcassone.

January 2024

Thoughts.

The truth is, I had never heard of Carcassone, France and now I’m an evangelist. David and Milo went skiing that weekend, so Nola and I wanted to take a long weekend somewhere less than 3 hours from BCN. The plan was to meet our friends from San Francisco living their own adventure with a year abroad in Paris – somewhere? And along the way Abby suggested Carcassone. 

I later learned about the board game with the same name. And in the process, fell in love with this little village full of history, medieval sights, great food and a vibrant town.  

Stay.

Eat.

Play. 

  • Castle Tour. Awesome Get Your Guide tour with Anna. She was funny, knowledgeable and engaging with the adults and kids. 
  • Wandering .. we climbed the castle walls and roamed the cobblestone streets in search of food stuffs sprinkled with truffles.
  • Shopping .. the “new” town has fun boutiques to marvel at how chic every French person is.

Venice.

December 2023

Thoughts

I last visited Venice in 1999 and fell hard. What’s not to love about a city of canals? Today, Venice is just as lovely, especially for Christmas and especially when no one else is there. Somehow our timing worked perfectly and we had it practically to ourselves. A few times we looked around some of the biggest tourist sites and were the lone wanderers. I was worried I’d miss my Delaware family too much over the holidays, but we made a point to seek out festive restaurants and activities. Venice delivered.

Stay.

  • Hotel L’Orologio. Simple, contemporary and on the water. I liked it but you can find another place that is just as nice.

Eat.

  • Cantine del Vino gia Schiavi. Cicchetti is Italian tapas. Coming from Spain, I felt vaguely snooty about the prospect, but I think the Italianos have us beat?
  • Farini. Pizza standing on the street. Always.
  • Cantina Do Spade. Ciccetti again. This is the way to eat.
  • Rosticceria Gislon. Cool spot where you sort of yell and point at things in a case you want to eat.
  • Hotel Danieli. Beautiful restaurant in an old world Venetian hotel overlooking the water.

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  • The Futbol. David and Milo watched Venezia play. And bought the requisite scarf I then usurped.
  • Doge’s Palace / Bell Tower. We did a Palace tour, nothing to write home about but good to learn from a knowledgable local. I definitely recommend a guide of some kind. Then climb the tower! This was spontaneous because there was no line, but get advance tix.
  • St Mark’s Basilica. Visited for Christmas Day Mass (en Italiano) and noted the uneven tiled floors warped by the rising water.

The dream.

Wanderlust has defined my entire adult life.

I can’t explain it. But if you have it, you just know. This drive for constant motion to … discover? deepen? contextualize? feel alive? Part of the feeling is a true love of experience, of meeting the people and eating the foods and seeing the sunsets. Part of it is knowing there’s always more out there to discover. And all of it is this imperfect balance between complete discomfort and control. But wandering from wherever I am to fall in love wherever I end up is my life’s passion.

But my dad always said: every day is not the 4th of July. And not every trip / “best” food / secret beach / kid adventure / perfect cocktail / is so glorious. In writing this, my hope is to share what I learn from every place that I go. That way, when you next wander, you have every shortcut to embrace or ignore or add to.

The Dolomites. Ā 

December 2023

Thoughts. 

We entered this trip knowing very little about skiing in the Dolomites. Skiing in this part of Italy is such a different scene – super fabulous (more fur than I’ve seen in a lifetime in Cortina alone), super laid back (no one else was on the slopes until what seemed like midday?) and super delicious food you wouldn’t expect (with a heavy German influence). We first spent a few days in Alta Badia at the NaturHotel which was wonderful. It was situated right near the lifts, served delicious food and the staff truly took care of us. 

After we moved to Cortina and I was less enamored. It’s the site of the Winter Olympics in 2026 for the second time– the first being 1956. Part of it was the lack of snow, and part of it was that it was Christmas / New Year’s with little value to be found. The people watching made up for the disastrous hotel at least. But I’d say if you have a chance to ski in Europe, we’ve enjoyed ourselves far more in Austria and France.   

Stay.

  • Miraval NaturHotel / Alta Badia.
  • Hotel Mirage / Cortina. I am only writing about this place because it was terrible. Please do not be fooled by the number of stars!Ā 

Eat. 

  • Rufugio Lagazuoi / Alta Badia. Any restaurant you need to take a cable car to is a good restaurant to me. The views from the top of Lagazuoi were incredible Ā  and we had the chance to hike around to peer into WWI hideouts.Ā 
  • Il Vizietto di Cortina / Cortina. Cozy date night spot with good pasta chased by complimentary grappa.Ā Ā 
  • Ristorante Pizzeria 5 Torri / Cortina. decent pizza
  • Il Ponte / Cortina. Decent pizza and worth mentioning because Milo’s pizza had fries on top.Ā 
  • Baita Fraina Enoteca / Cortina. We finally experienced ā€œthe sceneā€ in Cortina. And it’s definitely a scene inside and outside. Despite the snow and freezing temperatures, there was a throng of people outside drinking vino…  
  • Bar Caffe Sport / Cortina. This place was more relaxed than Baita Fraina but equally as jam packed inside and out.Ā 

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  • Dolomiti Superski Pass. Highly recommend this pass thanks to its versatility and relative affordability (for skiing).Ā  You have access to an entire series of mountain chains that seems to go on forward. And on that note…
  • Sellaronda. I still can’t believe we did it. Or rather, that I – as the current worst skier in the family – made it. The Sella is a famous 40km+ ski circuit in South Tyrol where you circle the Sella group in one day. It was a bluebird day with the kind of winter adventure I had no idea my kids were ready for. Highly recommend.